August 12, 2016
30°36’31”N
98°24’4”W
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These are my GPS coordinates as I write this blog. I am in our home, which also doubles as our meeting spot, cabin meeting area and hotel (we have had 8 different people stay in the house this summer).
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Some people might also say that these coordinates are the location of “camp”.
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They would be wrong.
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Camp is not a place or a location. It is a community. It is friends and heroes. It is laughs and the occasional tear.
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Tomorrow, our last campers of the summer will leave around noon. Tomorrow evening, we will have a final meal with all the counselors where we will say goodbye and sing “Golden Champions” for the final time this summer.
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Last year, a sister of a long time camper joined us as a counselor. During orientation, she explained that she is a stoic that had not cried in over 5 years. “Unlike my sister, I am not very sentimental.” As the summer progressed, she started to talk about how much her campers meant to her and how “real” her friendships seemed.
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When we gathered for the final time and sang “Golden Champions”, she broke down. I would be lying if I said that this did not please me. This young woman who had declared herself immune to the pull of camp was weeping because camp had become part of her.
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So after tomorrow night, “camp” will no longer be here. This site will become an exceptional outdoor education facility and a lovely backyard, but it will not be camp.
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But rather than mourn that loss, I want to savor these last 24 hours.
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Tonight, we will have our awards ceremony followed by Memory Lane. During Memory Lane, all the campers line up so that the campers can come by, give them a hug and say thank you.
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This is perhaps my favorite camp tradition. I believe we do not thank the people who enrich our lives as often as we should; be it our parents, our teachers, our coaches, our teammates or our friends. Tonight we get it right. We celebrate each other and share our appreciation.
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Tomorrow, camp will end, so we will embrace it while we can.
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Steve Sir